Ian Kerner
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“So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex” (2021)
Renowned sex therapist Ian Kerner shares the unique and indispensable methodology he uses to help thousands of couples get unstuck and into sexual sync. Dr. Ian Kerner is a Sherlock Holmes of the bedroom—a sexual detective helping individuals and couples solve the mystery of their sexual distress. His secret weapon? Anaylzing your “sex script.” Kerner takes a magnifying glass to a recent sexual event, examining the entire sequence of interactions—beginning, middle, and end—from multiple angles. In those details—the what, where, when, and why of the last time you had sex—all the clues of what went wrong are revealed and the mystery of how to create mutual pleasure can be solved. When our sex scripts work, we lose ourselves in mutual pleasure; but when they fail, it’s all we can do not to ruminate over the details. What can be learned by looking at your sex life in action? With wit and warmth, the nationally recognized sex therapist and author of the smash hit She Comes First shows readers how to tap into their erotic personalities and realize their sexual potential. Dr. Kerner provides the tools and techniques you need to assess, fix, and expand your sex scripts, as well as discuss many common sexual problems that get in the way of happy endings. With the help of decades of clinical insight, the latest sexual science and research, valuable homework assignments, case studies, and more, this insightful and original book strips away discomfort and offers couples not just the ability to talk about sex, but the ability to actually do something about it.
“Sex Detox: Recharge Desire. Revitalize Intimacy. Rejuvenate Your Love Life.” (2008)
From The new York Times Bestselling Author Of she Comes First And be Honest—you're Not That Into Him Either Comes A Revolutionary 30-day Program To Detoxify And Rejuvenate Your Love Life The Premise Is Simple: When It Comes To Sex, Dating, And Relationships, Sometimes We Get In So Deep The Only Way Out Is To Start Over Again. For Many Of Us—whether We're In A Relationship, Or Actively Dating In The Hopes Of Finding That Someone Special—our Love Lives Have Become A Source Of Toxicity. sex Detox Offers A Revolutionary Way To Start Fresh And Take Action. Just As A Physical Fast Will Rapidly Alter Your Metabolism And Natural Body Chemistry, So Too Will A Sex Or Dating Detox Impact Your Mind And Body, Enabling You To Reset, Rewire, And Ultimately Rejuvenate Your Love Life. In This Practical, Life-changing Guide, Ian Kerner Lays Out A Friendly, Achievable 30-day Course Of Action That Will Help You Turn Off The Noise, Take A Necessary Pause, And Rebuild Your Love Life From The Inside Out. If You're In A Relationship, You'll Learn To See Your Sexual History Not Just As A Series Of Physical Encounters, But Rather As A Unique And Vital Part Of Your Identity, Which Needs To Be Nurtured And Fed In Healthy Ways. You'll Experience The Thrill Of The Chaste And Learn How To Touch Your Partner With A Renewed Sense Of Passion And Possibility. If You're Single, The Dating Detox Will Give You A Chance To Step Off The Dating Treadmill, Catch Your Breath, And Recover Inner Strength For The Road Ahead. You'll Recalibrate Your Aspirations To Connect To Potential Mates From A Place Of Strength And Self-knowledge. Whether You're Single Or Coupled, sex Detox Will Enable You To Achieve The Relationship Results You Deserve. us Weekly “witty And Informed . . . This Must-read Promises To Help You Break Your Bad Dating Habits And Stay True To Your Own Intentions.”
“He Comes Next: The Thinking Woman's Guide To Pleasuring A Man” (2006)
Ian Kerner, author of the smash success She Comes First, offers women his sometimes radical, always expert advice on everything from the nature of male desire to bedroom techniques that work. In He Comes Next, Kerner covers every angle of male sexuality, illuminates the most common sex-life ruts, and offers practical, knowledgeable answers to women's most frequently asked questions. In his role as a sex therapist, Kerner has spoken with countless men not only about the best sex they ever had, but also, perhaps more importantly, about the best sex they never had — experiences they always desired and fantasized about, but were afraid to share with their partners. In the spirit of "full exposure," He Comes Next is the closest you'll ever come to waking up in a guy's skin and knowing what truly makes him sexually tick. Written in the same witty, insightful, and utterly readable voice that has made She Comes First and Be Honest — You're Not That Into Him Either so popular, He Comes Next is the thinking woman's guide to enjoying sex to the fullest and ensuring that he does the same.
“She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide To Pleasuring A Woman” (2004)
A Man's Guide On How To Enhance A Woman's Sexual Experience Through Oral Sex Outlines A System Of Intimate Techniques Designed To Maximize Female Gratification.
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