Biases are ingrained in the way humans process and organize information about others, rooted in our need for survival and belonging. These biases, shaped by power structures, childhood experiences, geographic location, and generational context, influence how we perceive ourselves and others. This talk delves into the messages we received growing up that shaped our worldview and explores how societal power dynamics shape our perceptions and interactions.
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By examining our lifelong socialization, this talk uncovers how biases lead to harmful or violent interactions and limit self-beliefs. Through constant self-awareness and reflection, we can challenge and overcome these limiting beliefs, fostering better relationships with ourselves and others.

Joy Wiggins and Kami Anderson advocate that the only way women can successfully support each other is by addressing the varying intersections of our individual power and privileges, particularly focusing on how some privileges are inherited along lines of race, class, sexuality, and geography. When we fully examine how we have power in certain situations and not in others, we start to see where we can lend privilege to create truly inclusive spaces for the historically underrepresented and marginalized. Wiggins and Anderson look at how the dynamics of privilege and power have played out in the history of the feminist movement and identify and break down socialized behaviors and ideologies that trigger implicit bias and microaggressions. And they provide tools to interrupt negative thoughts and actions so women can nurture mutual support and show up as their authentic selves. Each chapter features a dialogue between them reflecting on how issues of race, privilege, and power have played out in their lives and their friendship. The system of patriarchy has created an environment for women to knowingly and unknowingly sabotage each other—it is not inherent in women themselves. This book teaches us how to take an active approach to becoming better allies for each other and by so doing improve our world and end the cycle of injustice.
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